There is more to just asking for what I want.
I believe so.
This is one of the tips I was taught at my first Teen Insight Seminar.
So I want a job.
That was my first choice when I asked myself what it was that I wanted.
So why do I want a job?
To pay for my own finances and be responsible about what I spend.
I want a job to feel independent.
I also want to feel as if I've earned the wonders I will do with the money.
Ex: Go to Tanzania, help my mother out with expenses and of course get new CLOTHES and personal needs!!!!!
So, what is the experience I want to participate in?
I want to experience responsibility and independence.
Ok so those are the two core emotions I have so far.
How can I be responsible with what I currently have?
By getting to school on time, taking accountability for my actions, turn in my work on time, keep word and agreements.
How can I be independent with what I currently have?
I can depend on what I have and work with that, I can make myself lunch for school and get assist others.
It comes down to living the experience while I still haven't gotten what I exactly want.
IF I WANT TO A BOYFRIEND/ GIRLFRIEND RELATIONSHIP.
I WILL BE HAPPY, LOVING, FUN, CONNECTED and COMITTED to myself until I get that.
IT'S BOUND TO HAPPEN SOME TIME!!!!
LINDA HERRERA
